So since COVID happened dh has wfh as ECV so has in effect gained an hour per day via no commute. So he gets up goes to study and works for 8 to 9 hours per day. Weekends and evenings are pretty much his own. I largely cook and do everything else.
Meanwhile I work erratically throughout the month minimum 4O hours but up 50 per month so on the face of it less pressure. I am really stressing now about how I will WOH and homeschool as we have 3 kids. 2 secondary and one Primary . Primary aged dd suspected ADHD and one secondary serious anxiety issues and autism. Both SEN children have erratic sleep patterns and issues with soiling.
Homeschooling is pretty much a nightmare. Today dd3 was tired and napped during the day so achieved less than normal. I used the time to catch up on usual medical/sen admin whilst dh worked. Later I tried to catch up on homeschooling whilst cooking dinner etc and (d)h basically got cross because of noise of recorded lesson etc.
So aibu to think I should be getting more support. For full disclosure dh does have some physical issues which restrict the help he can give but sometimes I feel like the kids just won't go to him. I think dd2 who has autism and anxiety rarely comes out of his room when dh is around for example