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To think I’m not crazy?

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Indianafrankie · 08/01/2021 02:58

Am new to the town i live in (not U.K.) and heard on New Years Eve that my partner of 18 months has been sleeping with another woman, confronted him and of course he denies this. Claims they did have sex 7-8 years ago but now she wants something serious with him and so is passing this around (small town) to make people believe they are together. After I heard on NYE and listened to his story -I didn’t do it she is a liar etc, l said well ask her why she said this then. Finally tonight he does, turns up at her place of work, she gets in his car and they talk, where apparently she is sorry, doesn’t know why she said it but it will never happen again, this is all kinds of absolute rubbish isn’t it?

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Changemaname1 · 09/01/2021 00:08

Exactly . Sorry @Indianafrankie I know it feels shit now but in the long run you are better off without someone who hurts you like this

BettyAndVeronica · 09/01/2021 00:12

Get the hell out of there. Don't waste any more time with him.
His story is bollocks.
You're energy is better spent elsewhere!

Indianafrankie · 09/01/2021 00:14

You’re right I will be and I can see that now, just doubted myself for far too long but yes hurts like hell right now

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Indianafrankie · 09/01/2021 00:16

Thank you, actually the more people that see it the less I doubt myself

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BlueThistles · 09/01/2021 04:57

you will be okay and you do deserve better and better will find you 🌺

Indianafrankie · 09/01/2021 10:12

Ok someone on here with a bit more strength than me at the moment- he’s ignoring my message about coming to collect his things (have left them out do NOT) what do I do with this stuff then? Can’t just leave it there for weeks!

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Indianafrankie · 09/01/2021 10:12

Do not want to see him I meant to write!

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Winterpaw · 09/01/2021 11:13

Give him a deadline and stick to it. If not collected by X date/time then you can bin it. What a piece of shit he is and of course his story was all bullshit. You'll be better off without him OP!

Indianafrankie · 09/01/2021 11:28

Thanks, that’s what I’ve done I’ve said by the end of this afternoon or I’m binning it, it’s entirely his fault if he’s not reading the message right?

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