Ex-DH and I get on very well. He is an excellent and committed father and we are more friends than anything else. But this has really irritated me...
I pay for a Disney+ account for our (mine and the kids) home. About 6 months ago he asked me for the password so that our kids could watch it at his house. I immediately (and happily) gave it over as why should he pay for something the kids already have. Anyway over the Christmas period it has become clear that he has given the password to his current girlfriend for her kids to be able to watch Disney+ when they are at their own house (not ex-DH home).
I am not so petty as to have any issue with all the kids watching it together or for her kids to watch it at his house when ours aren’t there but AIBU to not want him to just hand the password out? Especially without asking me. Would it BU to change the password on the account so that they can’t use it? I don’t want to be petty (or passive aggressive) but this does irritate me.
(Just so I don’t drip feed I like the the new girlfriend, we have had dinner together as two families when restrictions were lower, and they don’t have much money so I don’t think they could afford Disney+ themselves. I would probably have said ok if he has asked me to give her the password but the fact he has just handed it out without asking that grates. Also it is a password I use for other accounts too)