Hi, my daughters father is very abusive and broke into my house and assaulted me in a jealous rage (I’m not with him and There’s a restraining order I have against him. He’s been making fake profiles on social media to tell me he’s came to my house and heard a male voice in my house whilst he was stood outside and told me I am going to pay for having a guy round . I’ve told the police about this and made a police report but they’ve done nothing ) 2 weeks after I made the police report I heard loud banging at my front door, i assumed it was my mum as she Came round earlier on and took my daughter out with her to go shopping but my gut instinct made me Stop and look through the peep hole. Standing there was my daughters dad, I refused to let him in and called the police straight away, they assured me they was on the way! The operator wanted to stay on the phone to me until police attended my address, It was quiet for a bit I thought he left but next thing I know my front room window is being smashed in! Long story short he managed to get in and assaulted me. When he heard the police sirens that’s when He stopped assaulting me and ran out the house, luckily they caught him as he was running off! He was arrested, held in custody until cps made a decision and was sent straight to prison and has been remanded until there is a court date. this was just before Christmas and his mother has been calling me non stop telling me what I did to make him react this way, she then told me he wanted to see his daughter that’s why he behaved in that way (I have a restraining order against him so if he wanted to see her he could have went through social) and that he wanted to spend Christmas with her. She then was annoyed that he was going to be in prison for Christmas, I hanged up the phone on her as I was frustrated by her she was basically sticking up for his behaviour and making excuses ! She then sent a text and said I shouldn’t hang up on her because it’s not her fault her son assaulted me and that when me and her son was laying down having sex she wasn’t there! Totally disgusting for her to say that. Also If her son really wanted to see out daughter he would have done it the right way, I was assaulted because he was jealous and thought I was seeing someone ! His mother then had a social worker call me telling me that the grandmother is requesting to see the baby! after everything I’ve been through she’s now trying to get social on my back ! Luckily Social was on my side and said it’s my decision and felt Remorse about everything I’ve been through regarding my daughters dad. Aibu for not wanting my baby around my abusive ex’s mother ? I don’t trust her at all! She was making it sound as if it was my fault for her son breaking into my house and assaulting me !