If someone personally no longer enjoys a song or a play or film, or piece of art, because it just makes them think of something awful - that s totally fine. I change the station when Aerosmith comes on because of that kind of reason, it just makes me feel unhappy, and why listen to pop music that makes me feel unhappy? I don't watch Polanski films though I think some are really very good, because I don't want to fund such a wanker.
MJ doesn't make me feel that. Maybe something to do with his personal circumstances, maybe because he's dead and can't benefit, maybe because I se his contribution to pop music as too inescapable. I don't claim it's necessarily logical.
That is hugely different from saying it's wrong to listen to or watch any of those things, they should be banned from the radio, etc.
As far as somgs with lyrics that have become socially unacceptable like Money for Nothing - I really think that should be based on whether most people begin to feel uncomfortable about them (or if the writer does.) That's the only way to know when it's time to retire a song like that or change it a bit. I somewhat object in those cases however as I don't think that's really what's gone on, I think there has been this puritan push. I remember not that many years ago when a local to me radio station banned MFN - they were soon inundated with calls, including from the gay community, which told them they were being stupid.
I also think a lot of people who complain miss the fact that in both of those songs the whole point of using the word is that it isn't good company language and is meant to tell us something about the kind of culture the speaker comes from. It's like even the characters in a story have to make sure they toe the line and avoid wrongthink.
Which brings me to this:
Do you take everything this literally? It quite clearly means "there but for the grace of God..." It's about acknowledging that the famine victims are human beings, just like you and I. That nothing makes us special or different, and if life were different it could just as easily be us slowly starving to death. I can't believe anybody could fail to get that tbh.
It seems more and more people do take this sort of statement literally. I have seriously wondered what has happened to people's literacy levels. Even at the time it was considered challenging, that was the point, the listener was being reminded what a position of privilege they had, for no reason other than good luck.
They take the "do they know it's Christmas time?" literally as well.