Hi all, this really hasn’t got anything to do with me but I’m posting on behalf of my partner for advice. We live with our dc so this doesn’t really affect us at all but he is worried sick. His mum and mums husband is somewhat vulnerable to covid. Not in the shielding group but in 60’s and health problems (heart disease, blood pressure, diabetes that kinda thing).
Sil is in her late twenties nearly 30 so not a teen pushing the boundaries and should know better. She went back there to live late last year then covid happened.
But she hasn’t taken covid seriously at all. She’s never followed lockdown rules at all, stayed at friends houses in other areas just for the hell of it, went abroad and didn’t isolate, parties, get togethers, more recently travelling to other tiers (one tier 4) to see a friend and stay there. A few weeks ago she pretended she lived at the same address as friends so they could go pub together. Just everything she shouldn’t really.
Like I say this doesn’t really directly impact as we don’t see them too much.
But oh has spoken to mil she’s worried sick the daughter will bring covid home. Her husband is the more vulnerable. He pretty much shuts himself away in his room. She always goes out and gets drunk the stays at peoples houses and comes home.
Aibu to think if she behaves like this she needs to find her own place? She’s not very settled at all. Was sofa hopping before moving back there. She needs a home but she needs to sort herself out.
We are meant to be seeing them tomorrow but not sure we will. She’s not long been back from a now tier 4 area and not sure it’s worth the risk and there’s always tension over there because of it all.
They also have another child living there who just goes to work and doesn’t do too much in between and that’s it. She’s considerably younger than said sister above and she’s much more sensible!
Aibu not to go? Mil really wants to see dc but not sure because of sil’s massive amount of social interaction!