This has been an ongoing problem for decades now I’m afraid. I’ve worked in mental health and have my own experience as a patient too.
Getting mental health support via the nhs is tricky. You have to be ‘bad enough’ to get it, and then you must continue to make progress as a direct result of that support after you do. Remaining still ‘bad enough’ but also not ‘getting worse’ once support is given.
Once you aren’t ‘bad enough’ anymore you’ll be discharged as soon as possible.
And if you DONT show progress as a result of whatever support is given, then yes you’ll be discharged for that also. For being an ‘enduring’ case that shows little chance of recovering.
It’s a very strange system. There are long term mental health supports in the form of CPNs etc but again, you’ll often be discharged eventually for either being not unwell enough anymore, or too unwell. You have to remain somewhere in the middle or they won’t be the appropriate service anymore.
It’s tricky because while there ARE patients who would never make any progress towards recovery or independence if we continued to provide support unconditionally, that’s absolutely not everyone. And is a really non compassionate way of looking at it.
Resources and funding are SO strapped in mental health. They can only give the care to people who’s lives they can prove will genuinely change as a result of it. Therefore the whole model feels a bit like you’ll be punished by being abandoned if you don’t prove you are worthy of the limited resources they have available. Which is a really sad concept and can be quite re-traumatising for some. It doesn’t help people build trust and it doesn’t make them feel worth help.
If you can afford to go private, that might be the way forward. Or perhaps look into long term support workers in the social care sector?