Babies dad not sticking to covid rules

[FreesiaFairy]

My baby goes to his dad's house twice a week, he lives with his family. They are possibly planning on having 3 households over for Christmas, despite us being in tier 4.. also some of the people that live there go to college etc. I'm obviously worried about my baby catching covid. And also me catching it from him. And I've decided to not see my parents as don't want to risk them catching it.

Would I be unreasonable to say I'm not happy with the baby going there at Christmas? (The plan is he'll go for a few hours). I'm also worried about after Christmas, even if it's just the one household as they aren't all isolating. But tier 4 could go on for months?

I don't want to cause arguments and I know this will upset my ex. Not sure what to do, has anyone else had the same issue?

Don’t let him go. I think it’s perfectly reasonable.

Do you just for Christmas or until tier 4 is over / it calms down a bit? He could come over here and see him as a compromise maybe? He won't be happy about it though :-(

Tier 4 could last for months so I think you need a compromise, which may be visits are yours if you are happy with that?

Yes I would be ok with that, not sure if he will be or his family, but got to put our sons safety first! My faith that they stick to the rules has been totally undermined and my ex says he's not worried about it at all which makes me think he won't stick to the rules