Needing advice for this AIBU, will try to keep it short.
Am currently 9 weeks pregnant with first child. Had told small handful of friends that we were trying. Found out last week that one of these friends has shared quite publicly with others that we are trying, which I am upset by.
Fast forward now to this week and I had an email from someone from work 2 nights ago letting me know that they think they might have let it slip to this same friend that I am pregnant (small world!) This person from work tried to cover up their mistake but unsure how well they managed this. So unsure if friend has worked it out from this encounter or not.
Should I fess up to this friend, tell them that I actually am pregnant and to keep their mouth shout? Or AIBU and should assume they will keep any suspicions quiet? I have quite literally only told my work place, not even parents yet.
To make matters more complicated (and I don't want to out myself on here over this) this same friend who didn't keep the secret is related to my family. Her Dad is currently dating my Mum (I know, really really small world!!), so has the possibility to end up sharing my news with my own mum before I do.
YANBU - tell her now so that she knows not to say anything
YABU - trust that even if she has suspicions she wouldn't share this with your own mum