DF messaged me this morning to say he will be spending Xmas day alone. He can't come to me or my sibling as we are tier 3, far away, and he is high risk.
He has a live in partner but they will be meeting up with four other households in one house for their usual family Xmas day. Yes I know the limit is three. They are having five.
DF is going to drop his partner off and go back to his house and spend the day alone.
I feel it is incredibly selfish of his partner to risk him by mixing in such a way. They could easily bring Covid back to him, I feel very disappointed that they don't want to stay with him and keep him safe.
I hold my tongue every year over Xmas arrangements but this year I just feel so sad for him, nobody is putting him first.
AIBU to actually tell him that I'm annoyed and upset for him.