My nan died recently in quite traumatic circumstances and it's been very upsetting for me and my family. Funeral was yesterday.
My partner is generally quite caring, but he's sort of just ignored it. He was mildly sympathetic for a day or two when it first happened a few weeks ago, but hasn't mentioned it or asked how I'm feeling since, without me bringing it up, and he totally forgot about the funeral. I understand he's been really wrapped up in work recently and has had a bit of a stressful financial issue that's been really bad luck, but I'm really disappointed in him. I get the impression he's a bit like 'oh well it's just your nan and she was old.' I get a lot of people find death awkward but all he needs to do is show that he acknowledges I'm sad and make it seem like he cares and he's there. Doesn't feel like that at the moment. Some of my work colleagues have shown more concern. Aibu?
Just to note we've been living apart at our family homes since last week, after our last tenancy ended, waiting to move into a new house in the NY.