Just for a bit of perspective.
I normally buy (pre babies) cards for all family. To both of you, mum, sister etc.
This year I just bought a pack of normal cards, wrote on those from us all and then made some cards with DD so bought card, paints etc. Posted them today, just had a phone call from MIL saying does DH know you've not bought me a mum card? (For context should be mum and Sdad anyway) I explained what we'd done this year and she said well he's never not got me a mum card (before he met me he didn't get her one at all) have I screwed up here? Should I go get a mum card?