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Someone tell me to get a grip

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Overwhelmed245 · 12/12/2020 20:22

Currently feeling very sorry for myself alone in my new place first time living alone. Stuck in bed feeling really ill as my condition is flaring up. Boyfriend and I said we would call each other before the boxing instead of our normal time so he could enjoy his evening with his house mate. I had no clue what time it started so when I called him about grabbing a gift I had scene in the supermarket he wanted for his brother he said he was watching tv and would call me tomorrow. My best friend said she was driving and would call me when she got home in five minutes she didn’t Instagram says she’s out for dinner and Christmas shopping it’s been 3 hours since I called. I cried from the pain earlier and ended up in a panic attack. The morphine hasn’t helped. I’m trying to book a therapist to see if she can help with my panic attacks but how do I help with the rejection feeling my ex was very abusive and would say he would call or take me to dinner and then wouldn’t but blame it on me saying I had done something to stop it happening and go off to the pub or spend time with his mates. I know my boyfriend hasn’t done it for those reasons at all he’s a very lovely boyfriend and so supportive but he’s probably just forgotten he’s never not called me before.

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Overwhelmed245 · 12/12/2020 21:34

Feeling a tiny bit better

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GreyWall · 12/12/2020 21:40

Couldn't read and run. Are you on anti depressants, they may help xx

Frownette · 12/12/2020 22:02

It's very stressful moving, and if you're in pain also you're bound to feel a bit emotional.

Tomorrow will be better.

Overwhelmed245 · 12/12/2020 22:20

Thank you no I’m not I had a break down just before I left my ex but I quit my job moved back home and felt so much better I didn’t feel I needed too but slowly once the relief wore of and the new job stress started I also filled my spare time with tinder sex and dates when that stopped it started up again. My new relationship was then another distraction and moving out was to as living with family was causing stress. I’ve now moved into my flat but it’s very lonely when my boyfriend isn’t here family can’t come visit because of Covid I’ve got no dining room table sofa isn’t coming until January. I’m going to get W doctors appointment but I’ve just emailed a therapist I want to see if that will help too

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Aahotep · 12/12/2020 22:40

Can you go and stay back with family till your sofa comes?

Overwhelmed245 · 12/12/2020 22:46

No family live to out in the sticks my new job I need to be able to get have access to public transport and family cause me to much stress

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Aahotep · 12/12/2020 23:13

It was just a thought. I'm sorry you are feeling so lonely, these are weird times.

Overwhelmed245 · 12/12/2020 23:59

Yes definitely weird times also best friend got a new boyfriend in the summer and are relationships gone from seeing each other every week and lots of phone calls to nothing. Also my windows had to be replaced on my flat as new build still being rectified so I’ve got plastic film on my windows can’t even see out or open them

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Overwhelmed245 · 13/12/2020 10:32

Thanks for all the advice last night and support

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Aahotep · 13/12/2020 11:21

How are you feeling today? Did you manage to get some sleep?

Overwhelmed245 · 13/12/2020 12:15

Yes I did I also got a taxi to work so I could lay in a little longer forgot to get the meat out the freezer and flats a mess so boyfriends off to get it before he sees me cried over that which is silly it’s only meat

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Aahotep · 13/12/2020 16:03

It's not really about that, it's because you are feeling so out of sorts. You'll get there.
It's always a mess when you have just moved. You will get there

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