Just wondering what people make of this situation...
I went to a salsa club with a guy (a boyfriend, of sorts) a while ago. (He was hopeless at it, but that's beside the point.) We had maybe half an hour of tuition and then you could stay on and dance. Also there was a bar.
The club is kept at a really low temperature so people don't get too hot while dancing, and after a while (we'd danced a bit and had a drink) I said I was getting really cold and would like to go soon. Boyfriend didn't want to leave - fair enough; I tried to be patient. However after about another half an hour I was starting to feel really chilled and put my coat and scarf on.
I said again to boyfriend that I wanted to leave, but he wanted to stay to have another drink (even though we could have gone elsewhere). He didn't offer me one, presumably because he knew I'd say, "no thanks, I'm freezing cold and I'd like to go somewhere warmer."
When he got to the bar he found there was a minimum credit card spend, so rather than saying, "Oh well, let's try another bar," he bought a random woman a drink while I sat next to him shivering.
Was he being perfectly reasonable or should I have dumped him on the spot?