AIBU to be annoyed, or should I just be glad DC are getting presents...
Non-existent parenting relationship with abusive ex. We can just about have a couple of civil text conversations a year if necessary. DD hasn't seen him for a few years and he'll perhaps text her once or twice a year.
He's messaged this week asking what she wants for Christmas. I've struggled myself with ideas but I've been pleasant and sent him some links of things she may like. I've just checked which he's ordered so I know what not to buy...
"Yes I've ordered xyz. They'll be delivered to you this week, so you can wrap them for me and I don't need to carry them over then."
Ohhh can I now?