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To share my poem with you? A poem to my younger self.*** Trigger warning!

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NewBeginningsss · 11/12/2020 23:35

Dear Lauren,

I'm sorry you had to suffer
I'm sorry you felt alone
I'm sorry you were so frightened
In the place that you should have called home.

I'm sorry you blamed yourself
And I'm sorry you believed the lies
I'm sorry the letters you wrote to your mum
Just couldn't open her eyes.

To the pain of her words that she beat you with
To the anguish you felt inside
To the love that you wanted to smoother her with
And the affection you needed to thrive.

It's not your fault that you weren't able to
Protect yourself from the pain
To stop yourself from feeling
As she tore you to pieces yet again.

You deserved her love and attention
Her support and her guidance too
She couldn't be the parent that you deserved
But that's no reflection on you.

You may not love yourself just yet
You may feel lost and afraid
You may make mistakes as you desperately try
To numb the unbearable pain.

But life will take you on a journey
Where you'll find your purpose and meaning
Where you'll feel the love you should have felt
Right back in the beginning.

You'll love others more than words can express
And they'll love you just the same
Your heart will be full of joyfulness
And no longer filled with pain.

So don't ever forget your worth
Your strength and your courage too
Just know that the love you've needed all along
Is right there within you.

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HeelsHandbagPerfumeCoffee · 11/12/2020 23:40

That’s powerful,and very beautifully written. You’ve evidently put a lot into it

NewBeginningsss · 11/12/2020 23:49

Thanks Heels. I'm not sure its any good as a piece of writing but it really is from the bottom of my heart.

I've been going to counselling for almost a year now and I am finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel I've been stuck in for most of my life. I am feeling happiness. And most importantly, I finally feel as though I deserve to feel happiness.

I will never share this poem with anyone IRL so thought I would share it here anonymously.

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Noti23 · 11/12/2020 23:51

I empathise with Lauren over feelings towards a parent. Thank you for putting it into words.

HeelsHandbagPerfumeCoffee · 11/12/2020 23:57

It’s powerful,because every word is significant to you and you’ve put yourself out there

HeelsHandbagPerfumeCoffee · 11/12/2020 23:58

It’s beautifully written because it’s genuine, and that’s The beauty
You’re not writing for plaudits you’re writing because it’s cathartic

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