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To tell the truth about my workplace

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Iwillnotbesilenced · 10/12/2020 23:30

I have name changed for this-I have been posting for a few years and MNHQ can attest to this.

I can’t give too much details as it is very outing. I almost what this to come out so everyone knows! But until I make a decision on next steps , I just want to vent and maybe get some advice.

I am fuming, disappointed, pissed off, disenchanted and so much more with my job.

My work involves workers rights and we are quite niche. On the outside, we do an amazing job helping members but on the outside, we are a mess- firstly, no management as we are all supposed to work at same level but in reality it’s not like that- colleagues who have worked there longer always get their way.

Maybe I am being naive and this is how work is and I just have to suck it up. But I really don’t think I and some of my colleagues are asking for too much.
Issues include:
1- some of the colleagues who have been there longest, having protégés and covering up their mistakes, blatantly reducing their workload by assigning us more work, not following procedure when assigning work.Which means that on paper, you have less work. For example, sending work which doesn’t show on the system.

2 despite many conversation, colleagues continue to do do whatever they want in terms of assigning work for example, we had implemented a new sistem but soon enough, we reverted back to the old system because “some people” complained and were not happy with how it worked, despite the fact that it worked better and work could be better distributed.
3- sidelining colleagues who leave because the pressure is too much. This is essentially bullying and I have been feeling like I cant work there anyone. I was helping a worker with issues at work and, when the person began relaying the issues, it made me so sad because it felt like that person was me and some of my colleagues.
4- not believing sickness- we are supposed to help workers with all kinds of issues but when it’s our turn to have our rights as workers, it’s not so simple- one colleague was not believed when sick. There was absolutely no reason not to believe the colleague who up until then, all came to work and was not of questionable behaviour.
The colleague was eventually bullied back to work couple weeks after.
4- blatantly seeing that some colleagues do f alland trying to pass on their work which should be distributed between all colleagues. I did speak up and said that work needs to be distributed fairly according to everyone’s working hours and current workload.

I don’t want to be bullying out of my work and will not.

Any suggestions on how to deal with the absolute mess that is my job?

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Iwillnotbesilenced · 11/12/2020 08:19

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Mulderitssme · 11/12/2020 08:31

You don't work for the CA do you? I used to work for the CA and was shocked at the level of bullying, corruption and just general awfulness. There are also an inherently racist organisation and anti-disability.
My advice would be to leave. I just don't think you can change an organisation like that. Flowers

Onedaylikethi5 · 11/12/2020 08:43

I've worked in one of these organisations one of the ones mentioned above. Leave, life is too short. I work for national charities now, using my skills in a different way, much better paid and far better managed.

Catforaheadrest · 11/12/2020 10:58

Leave!

Iwillnotbesilenced · 11/12/2020 16:36

Thank you for the responses. I see the point of leaving. Many colleagues have left due to the same issues.

I know that I will probably not change people but I want to speak up about some of the issues before I go.
Having suffered from bullying during my school years. I promised myself not to allow bully’s to win.
It’s not just about me. It’s about all my colleagues who have suffered and if I just walk away, would I not be allow the bully’s to get away with it.
I fight for workers rights and cannot believe we are having to spell out that things are terribly corrupt at work.
I have had a chat with my boss and told him of my concerns. He’s been receptive and has asked more questions to try to resolve the issues.

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Iwillnotbesilenced · 11/12/2020 16:40

@ Mulderitssme, what is CA? Is it Citizens Advice?
No. I don’t work for CA(despite not knowing what that stands for, lol. my workplace initials are different )
I think I was quite naive and when, if things don’t change an I have to leave, will be very careful about my next employer.

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unmarkedbythat · 11/12/2020 16:41

Walking way is not allowing bullies to win. It is taking control of your professional life and recognising that this environment is a poor one and that you deserve better. I know what you mean about not wanting them to get away with it- but in your shoes I would seek another job, resign once I had it, wait for my references to go through and then have an honest and unemotional exit interview. If I thought legislation was being ignored or something a regulator could deal with was taking place, I would make use of whistleblowing procedures. If it's just bad management and a poor workplace culture, though... I wouldn't make myself their new target.

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