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Rapid aging: AIBU & vanity?

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N0tthe0nlyfruit · 10/12/2020 14:27

I'm 48 and at one with myself, mostly! Of course I have the usual lack of jaw definition, different fat distribution where I wish it wasn't, under eye circles and wrinkles, but I didn't mind too much.

Roll on this 2020. Marriage nearly fell apart due to his virtual infidelity and giving fuck all to the marriage for 7 years. He's now on ADs.

Very good friend starved herself to death in protest at her long term illness. Miss her terribly. Cry when I think of her suffering. Half my hair fell out 3 months after this.

I had a serious relapse of autoimmune illness for the first time in 8 years, knocked the stuffing out of me, only took 1 week off, due to start very very risky meds now.

Quasi legal case being going on a year, no resolution. Hellish.

DF mentally unwell (nothing new) narcissist whose controlling and bullish behaviour towards me especially has got worse since Covid.

Covid nearly least of my worries.

I look like shite. Wrinkly, grey, balding, exhausted looking. I was capable of scrubbing up alright but this year had decimated that. AIBU to even care?

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