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To say no in future ?

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inthedarkxx · 10/12/2020 10:41

So my ex said he would have children every Thursday and Friday after school, this has worked ok for several weeks so I thought yes we are finally getting to an agreement he's sticking to it, the children and I got used to it. Then this week told me on wed he wanted the kids THAT DAY after school instead of Friday so wed thurs this week instead of third fri. I agreed because he said a job came up on the Friday so as a one off I agreed ( so he can let say I've not done right by the kids)
As a one off change I thought ok fine as we didn't have any plans ourselves
I made sure he was aware it's a one off and his reply was that if he needs to change things in the future I should accept his Changes. Am I right in saying actually no I shouldn't ? At the moment i have no plans because of Covid but when things settle down I will have.. am I being unreasonable I. The future to say no if this keeps happening ?

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blubberball · 10/12/2020 11:03

No, he can't keep titting around. Once in a while is fine, but other wise you need to make arrangements and stick to them, so that everyone can plan their lives and the children have stability.

I've been in a similar situation op, and it's shit.

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