Long story short. I met him in college 20 years ago and got back in touch. Thought it was ok but he started acting weird being overly close to my kids. I’m a single parent obvs so have no bubble as such, thought it would be ok to invite him over during lockdown. I started not wanting him around and he got really nasty.
Then I messaged, ended it and he wanted to be ‘friends’. So I said I suppose, cos I’m a soft touch but I definitely didn’t want him back and made that clear. He started ‘buying’ us making me think I need him as I’ve struggled on my own for 8 years with 2 kids. I fell for it for a bit but then when I opened up about social involvement that I had and was signed off, he started threatening me with them when I attempted to end it. I was decorating and he came round and wiped gloss paint on my new sofa, my daughter told me, luckily i got it off but I messaged saying why would anyone even do that? He didn’t respond apart from saying I can’t do this on text, we need face to face.
I’ve said I’ve ended this 3 times and he isn’t hearing me. I’m scared he will report me to SS as threatened, it won’t come across as malicious cos he has a manager in the family. I don’t trust him or them.
He made the most vile comments about me last time I ended it, I couldn’t possibly go back even if I wanted to. He said I was repulsive. He repulses me himself but I was kind enough not to say it.
Sorry for banging on but how can I get rid of him? He irritated the hell out of me before he sent me an essay of abuse