We went out last night with anothr couple.
The establishment we went to have a bring your own bottle policy. I was driving [pre arrangment, I didn't mind!]
Dh took a bottle of wine with him, he usually drinks beer but didn't want to carry a 6 pack in to a nice place
Anyway, the couple we were with shared a bottle of red whilst dh drank the whole bottle he had brought with him, himself.
Then we went into the bar of a nearby hotel where they had entertainment. I fancied a coffee so asked for one. Dh started making fun of me for asking for a coffee... Anyway, the music wasn't good so we decided we would go home soon... dh continued buying the other man beers, they must have had about 6 more each by the time friend and I managed to get them to leave. Friend had stopped drinking after we left the eating place.
We decided that seeing as it was still early and the other couple had a sitter all night (a parent) they decided to come home to ours for an hour or so so I could let my sitter go home. As soon as we were home dh started pouring more drink, spirits, for himself and friends dh. Friends dh didn't want anymore so had pints of water. Me and friend had tea. We were all joking and laughing, I was tired so said I'd go and pull on my pyjama bottoms as I had a sore stomach... it would be Ok to leave them home wearing those as they don't live that far away, but too far to walk.
Anyway, we chatted and dh started becoming obsessed with getting friend a book he had read.. he wrecked the bloody house looking for a book! He continued talking about it, on and on and on despite my looks and both our friends telling him the conversation had moved on!
It was almost 2.30 when my friend said they had better get a move on, so I stood up to get car keys and dh pulled my pyjama bottoms down
I was mortified. Friend and her dh kind of laughed and chided dh saying he was naughty etc.. but I wanted to stab him. Then he hit his glass with his arm and spilled his booze all over the floor.. blamed friend's dh who was nowhere near him
When I came home from leaving friends home he was asleep on the sofa. He then got up, hand over mouth and was sick all over the kitchen floor. I made him clean it up and went to bed.
He came to bed at 5am. I got up with the kids at 10am to see sick in the kitchen sink.
Dh is still in bed now, a very sorry boy.. he couldn't understand last night or this morning why I was cross with him...
In fairness, he never usually drinks as much as what he did and I do think he shouldn't have had the bottle of wine etc. He does not have a drink problem, the only problem is he drank too much last night and was a complete and total wanker dickhead arsehole and shit head!!
AIBU to be annoyed at him?????????