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To think this woman, is the ultimate cheeky fucking cunt (trigger warning)

49 replies

Soubriquet · 04/12/2020 14:44

Contains a trigger warning as it mentions a still birth.

I am actually gobsmacked at the friend...how dare she!

link

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switswooo · 04/12/2020 15:09

I've just read that link and I'm not buying it. Sounds like trolling (hopefully fine to say as the troll in question would be on reddit).

MoiraCrows · 04/12/2020 15:12

Your thread title is disgusting.
And I'd bet the link is fake news.

JesusInTheCabbageVan · 04/12/2020 15:15

I can't believe that happened either.

Also, I found the constant 'comedy' Gifs very nearly as offensive. Just... no need for that.

Clawdy · 04/12/2020 15:18

That website was a pain, I couldn't get off it, kept pressing the x symbol and trying to leave, but in the end had to switch my tablet off. Pretty sure that's a website with provocative fake news.

DifficultPifcultLemonDifficult · 04/12/2020 15:23

I can believe it.

After my little girl born she was very ill then she died, my ex husbands sister never bothered her arse to contact us except for a card with literally her name at the bottom of the it, she didn't even acknowledge my daughters name, she never attended her funeral either as it was 'too far away (we lived 2 hours away).

We put my daughters cot and pram around to his other sisters house until we decided what to do with them (my daughter never got out of hospital so she had never slept in them or used them) and I couldn't decide what to do with them as it was all such a shock and I found it upsetting to have them in our small house, and she had space.

A couple of weeks after my daughters funeral the sister appeared at the house my daughters cot and pram was, announced that her son had got someone pregnant and that she was taking the cot and pram since they were 'going spare' and we weren't using them now. And the sister allowed her to take them. I was absolutely fucking fuming and never spoke to her again. Too much bother to attend her nieces funeral, but the minute her idiot son gets some girl pregnant she can drive and mooch, what she perceived to be, free stuff.

These absolute selfish cuts do exist.

2beautifulbabs · 04/12/2020 15:27

Awful truly awful I hope she cuts that's dreadful excuse of a human being out of her life.
No one in their right mind would ever be so heartless and cruel to ask for gifts back or money back when something tragic like that happens.

fallfallfall · 04/12/2020 15:31

Good reason to never give baby gifts until after the birth.

Dannydevitoiloveyourart · 04/12/2020 15:56

That website you linked is so annoying.

Link to the Reddit thread and first 3 screenshots of the woman’s Facebook post/ text messages.

www.reddit.com/r/ChoosingBeggars/comments/k3oojb/woman_asking_for_baby_gifts_back_from_a_woman_who/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

But if this is real (which from the texts it does sadly appear to be) then what an awful human being that “friend” is.

To think this woman, is the ultimate cheeky fucking cunt (trigger warning)
To think this woman, is the ultimate cheeky fucking cunt (trigger warning)
To think this woman, is the ultimate cheeky fucking cunt (trigger warning)
MorrisZapp · 04/12/2020 16:34

Nah that's bullshit. One party is polite, reasonable and writes properly, the other can't spell and says babe and hun.

This is trolling.

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 04/12/2020 16:35

@DifficultPifcultLemonDifficult

I’m so sorry for your loss. You are so much better off with the sisters in your life.

Besom · 04/12/2020 16:54

Easy enough yo fake messages and texts.

canigooutyet · 04/12/2020 17:06

@Besom

Easy enough yo fake messages and texts.
Yup, this is just one of many places

ifaketextmessage.com/

Besom · 04/12/2020 17:08

Hoowhoowho and DifficultPifcultLemonDifficult I'm so sorry to both for your loss

MiddleClassProblem · 04/12/2020 17:10

What she have done if the baby lived? She would have had to have bought something else anyway.

VladmirsPoutine · 04/12/2020 17:22

Sorry but I just don't buy this. Of course the world is full of horrific people but this just doesn't ring true and really jumped the shark in that part about baby burial in the blanket.

justilou1 · 04/12/2020 17:28

Can you imagine how friend two would feel upon finding out that she had been gifted the dead baby’s things? No way would you accept that!

Meowchickameowmeow · 04/12/2020 17:37

That website is the pits, what's with the gifs every few lines in a supposed serious piece about loss.
Also, 'I didn't want to put this out here but I have no choice' is bullshit. If this genuinely did happen then it's awful but she had the choice to keep it private.

Leaannb · 04/12/2020 18:11

@ThatLibraryMiss..
This wasn't on AITA. It was on choosing beggar.

Leaannb · 04/12/2020 18:14

@canigooutyet...This isn't text. Its Facebook messenger. Still fake able but a little bit harder

EdwardCullensBiteOnTheSide · 04/12/2020 18:19

It does not read as though its true in my opinion.

MiddleClassProblem · 04/12/2020 18:22

How is it harder? You just make/have two accounts...

ThatLibraryMiss · 04/12/2020 18:23

[quote Leaannb]@ThatLibraryMiss..
This wasn't on AITA. It was on choosing beggar.[/quote]
Sorry, my mistake. Still a subreddit with a high proportion of made-up bollocks though.

Soubriquet · 05/12/2020 09:26

@MoiraCrows

Your thread title is disgusting. And I'd bet the link is fake news.
Ah see I don’t care about that

I use the word cunt on a daily basis Grin

We like that here GrinGrin

And @DifficultPifcultLemonDifficult I’m sorry to hear about your daughter.

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Averyyounggrandmaofsix · 05/12/2020 09:39

I would be so touched and flattered that my blanket had been chosen for the baby's final journey. But it makes me cynical too, if, God forbid, this was me I'd want the baby surrounded by things from people who loved him.
Such a sad thread and virtual hugs to everyone who needs one. X

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