I just don’t think I can cope anymore. Going through crap and now we have a broken boiler three weeks before Christmas.
DP has had a major crisis related to something that happened in his past (I posted about this about a month ago on another thread under a different username, it was a 30 day only)...It’s been one of the toughest things I’ve ever gone through but I was just about coping myself, trying to stay calm and look after my own well-being and the DCs etc.
So roll on Wednesday, following endless hounding I had finally agreed to have a smart meter installed. We have/had a very old but reliable baxi boiler but unfortunately something happened when the new meter was installed and it looks like the circuit board has blown. In short, the plumber’s opinion is that the whole boiler now need replacing, if he replaces the circuit board, the likelihood is that there will be a knock on effect and something else will go wrong. I am in agreement and honestly think if he could just fix it he would.
Yes it was an old boiler but my argument is is was working perfectly fine that morning and has broken as direct result of having the smart meter fitted. If the engineer hadn’t been round to install the meter I’d have a fully functioning boiler now.
I’ve spent hours on the phone to the energy supplier and it’s becoming glaringly obvious that I’m going to have to fight for any reasonable compensation. I have a young DC who needs my attention, where am I going to find the time and energy for this?! I’m too busy trying to get help for DP.
In case nobody’s noticed, there’s a pandemic going on and we’ve had to spend our savings. A relative has kindly offered to lend us the money for either repair or a new boiler.
So DP in crisis, boiler is broken but we can borrow the money to sort it out, it’s not the end of the world....the same day on Wed Dd2 comes home from school. Her good friend’s parents have tested positive for corona and now her friend’s twin sister has (they share a room etc), the friends test is inconclusive. We are expecting that DD will be sent home by Monday to self-isolate. Obviously can’t have the plumber in the house under those circumstances and it looks now we are now facing going through coronavirus and Christmas with no heating 😱 i know in theory we’re allowed to visit family at Christmas but it’s been a pretty unanimous decision all round that everyone is staying put this year, we can’t risk spreading it to older relatives. This is just so so crap.
I feel like I’m about to snap. I was just about coping and now this. I’m going to speak to the doctor tomorrow and ask for ADs although I’m still BFing - not sure if I can take them if I am?
Have googled the smart meter/ boiler thing and it is an issue which has happened to others. The engineer should have taken one look at our aged boiler and refused to install the smart meter on the basis that it wouldn’t be able to cope with the switchover. They really should not be installing these new meters at the moment, if at all, if there’s any risk to the boiler whatsoever. I really think they need to halt the installation programme, at least temporarily.
So I have DP in crisis
Broken boiler
Potentially coronavirus
It’s three weeks to Christmas (been so stressed with DP we have no decorations up, haven’t bought a single present, we’re staying at home to avoid giving it to older rellies and I haven’t even thought about Christmas food, turkey etc)
If I hadn’t had the smart meter installed the boiler would still be working. I would be focussing on DP and Christmas
I know other people have it worse but just just can’t deal with it all anymore. I’ve been lying in bed unable to sleep, sobbing because in 1-2 hours I have to get up and deal with a lively toddler all day. I have numerous calls to make for DP, plus the usual food shopping etc to do and now I need to spend hours getting advice and writing letters re the boiler. I just can’t cope, I can’t do this anymore :-(
I know it was an old boiler, I know that but if the smart meter hadn’t been installed it would still be working now. This is so unfair.