This actually happened last month but it's been niggling me so wanted some views.
My husband's ex (they share DC) can be quite...not sure how to phrase it... She thinks she should be privy to lots of personal things about his life. There have been a few examples of this, like wanting to know how much I earned before we moved in together for example (years ago now).
Anyway, day to day they get on okay, and we do too generally, I just think she's quite nosey sometimes.
I posted during pregnancy loss awareness week on my own social media that me and DH had experienced a loss earlier in the year and it had been very difficult and sad. I didn't post much information, just shared where people could find the MA website etc..
Anyway, DH later that week received messages from his ex saying she thought it was really bad we didn't tell her first and she has a right to know that 'for the kids' before having to find out on social media. No 'im sorry to hear that' mind...
I don't have her on social media so obviously I need to crack down on my privacy.
I don't actually care that she knows. But AIBU to think it's actually not her 'right to know' and we absolutely didn't need to tell her about it. Obviously it would have been very different if it were a successful pregnancy and the children were told about it. But they didn't and don't know about it.