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What’s happening? Is this flirty banter or something more serious?

39 replies

Chairlove · 28/11/2020 20:18

Split up from my ex in January. Since then we have had a few reunions. Tried to get back together but didn’t work. We seemed better as friends with benefits. There is no nastiness.

There was always another girl hanging about and they got together. So back to a few walks and texts. I was also seeing someone.

Tonight he texts, normal stuff and it seed to escalate. He was saying he is in a long distance relationship and it’s a bit stressful. She always wanted something to happen, but it didn’t, till 6 weeks ago. She seems happy, he says it was a jump from being friends to partners and he is not too sure it’s worth it.

We ended up having a bit of a flirty chat. Him saying he wanted to suck my nipples and saying I couldn’t tempt him, even if I turned up in underwear. I did flirt back and say if he serious come round I like a challenge. What am I doing?

he has a girlfriend of 6 weeks, but our chemistry is so intense. He was suggesting then saying I couldn’t tempt him. I assume that’s flirty talk.

What am I doing? Do you think he is serious?

OP posts:
iamtheoneandonlyyy · 28/11/2020 21:31

Ew to the nipples thing

Pinkyandthebrainz · 28/11/2020 21:34

Cringe.

Scarby9 · 28/11/2020 21:34

@Pumperthepumper
My guess is asbestos = ashamed

jambeforeclottedcream · 28/11/2020 21:56

🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️I've been in your position OP

Why did you break up in the first place
How serious were you

From experience outside of pillow talk how many firm plans have been put in place

I know it's not easy, especially atm with everything going on, dating is proper bleak atm. I'm still speaking regularly to my version of your guy. But move on he's not with it.

DanikaJ · 28/11/2020 22:00

And it was this moment @Chairlove realised... she fucked up.

Hes using you. Play with your own nipples and get some self respect.

Aquamarine1029 · 28/11/2020 22:00

I'm actually embarrassed for you.

the80sweregreat · 28/11/2020 22:04

I needed a laugh then I opened your thread!
If your being true on here I think you should tell him where to go personally. His using you both ( or will do if you let him)

Pebbledashery · 28/11/2020 23:41

This has absolutely got to be a joke thread 😊

AngryFishes · 28/11/2020 23:51

It's not exactly Romeo And Juliet is it.

youvegottenminuteslynn · 29/11/2020 00:10

Ex: bet you can't persuade me to shag you now I'm seeing someone

OP: yes I can!

How embarrassing. Gather your self respect and move on FFS.

emilyfrost · 29/11/2020 01:54

I can’t sleep until I find out what ‘asbestos’ was supposed to be 😂😂

Pumperthepumper Ashamed 😂 What a weird autocorrect!

user1473878824 · 29/11/2020 21:22

Why are you doing the pick me dance with someone who would cheat so easily and you know the relationship doesn’t work?

AnyFucker · 29/11/2020 21:26

That is proper cringey

VladmirsPoutine · 29/11/2020 21:27

Have you had a few glasses of du vin? In anycase block and delete.

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