I am so fed up !! Cut a long story short second marriage a few kids between us . We bought a new house to accommodate the amount of kids we had and I rented out my former home which I had already. I have just signed to have new tenants in mid December and started to regret it. I am fed up to the back teeth of doing everything in our house whilst my husband sits there either playing on his iPad or reading . It’s been going on a few years but it dawned on me things are never going to change. He’s like the one who you would accuse of not pulling his weight if you had a house share with him. I do all the gardening, decorating, cleaning, washing, look after the animals whilst he just sits and reads and is oblivious to it all . I had to go out to get medicines this morning and got back at 11.30 the kitchen was a tip and all the animals were unfed whilst he’s made himself his third cup of coffee and gone back to bed to read. He’s not interested in socialising ( if we could that is) I feel like I have lost my friends as he’s doesn’t like going out with people . He has a busy job but so do I and I have had enough . I told him today how I felt and he got dressed and now has been out of the house for six hours plus. He always does this if I say anything which he sees as me bullying him. I am well aware of this blackmailing, controlling behaviour. I want to move back to my former home but I am scared now the new tenants could sue me for breach of contract if I don’t go ahead with the let . I am trapped and depressed!!