I have 3 children, they were all unplanned, got pregnant whilst on contraception. Just for clarification I am married and they are mine and my dh children.
I didn't mind the first time I got pregnant as we were going to start trying soon, second was more of a shock. There's a 5 year gap between my youngest and second.
Here's my issue, I never felt broody, before having any of my children. Before I found out am pregnant with my third, I was getting my life back on track, applying for jobs, going to the gym, finding new interests and hobbies, then found out am pregnant.
Dc3 is one years old and I find myself so broody!! Like all the time! Especially when I see expecting mums, I get like butterflies wanting to have another child. I really miss my bump. I miss my younger child being a baby!. I've never felt like this (broody)before.
I quickly remind myself, now is not a good idea, 4 will be a lot harder, plus With the number of bedrooms we have, not a good idea! At the same time I would rather have number 4 now, so I can get the school runs out of the way together with number 3 and 4.
My 3 are of the same gender, I do really want the opposite gender, what if it isn't? Am I only feeling broody for that particular gender or because I actually want a fourth child???
I've always wanted 4 children when I was younger.
Thank you if you managed to read all that!