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AIBU?

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To ask what happens if I don't work my notice?

20 replies

MrsAIBU · 25/11/2020 22:52

I work in our local supermarket I have given my notice my last day is Saturday and I start my new job Monday. I just can't bare another day in there tomorrow standing by the door in the cold counting people coming in and having arguments with customers about the stores covid rules.

I feel like emailing in that I'm not working the rest of my notice but I also feel a bit bad.

AIBU? What happens if I don't work the last few days

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FredtheFerret · 25/11/2020 22:53

Sickness/diarrhoea bug?

mooncakes · 25/11/2020 22:55

Realistically nothing will happen.

In the future they could write on a reference that you didn't work your notice.

emeraldcity2000 · 25/11/2020 22:55

Theoretically they could sue for breach of contract - they won't. Do you need a reference? They could mention it there

Posteni1 · 25/11/2020 22:55

Nothing.

Absolutely sweet FA. They will give you the standard working dates reference and that’s it. No one gives a reference other than that these days. So nothin at all will happen.

Will only bite you if you ever decide you want to go back. Other than that .., nothing,

MrsAIBU · 25/11/2020 22:56

I have used them as my reference for my new job I don't think they have been in contact yet.

So I'm guessing I'm going to have to ride it out Angry

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DressingGownofDoom · 25/11/2020 22:56

Always best to leave on friendly terms. You might want to work for them again, or need a reference, or bump into your manager in another job or a social setting.

LibrariesGiveUsPower45321 · 25/11/2020 23:11

Get over it and go and do your last day. You might hate the job but it’s a dick move to leave them short staffed just because you can’t be bothered.

lifestooshort123 · 25/11/2020 23:13

Always best to leave on friendly terms. You might want to work for them again, or need a reference, or bump into your manager in another job or a social setting.
I agree with this. It's also about self respect and not running away when things get tough.

FlumpetCrumpet · 25/11/2020 23:16

I don't work in HR but I believe that a reference these days consists of 'FlumpetCrumpet was employed as 'job title' between x date and x date' and nothing more.

Enough4me · 25/11/2020 23:18

I would leave positively in case the new role doesn't work out.

EmeraldShamrock · 25/11/2020 23:23

If you're starting the next job Monday your reference has been checked or your cv is firmly on file.
No one hires then decide to check out credentials afterwards.
Besides a 24 hour bug will have you well for your new job Monday. Wink

Stillnotgotdressed · 25/11/2020 23:25

Stick with it - you are so close now and the fact you are asking others sounds like you know what to do really. You may get a nice little send off on your last day even if not much is possible at the moment and you will feel better for leaving properly.

Catlover77 · 25/11/2020 23:32

A future reference will likely state:

Name, job title, dates of employment, resigned - failed to work required notice period

Bunnybigears · 25/11/2020 23:33

Just work your notice and leave, you are out of there soon which makes it a hell of a lot easier to manage the crap knowing that its days are numbered.

SarahJinx · 25/11/2020 23:36

Nothing will happen. The reference will only provide details of your time employed. You just won’t get your full notice pay.

BluebellsGreenbells · 25/11/2020 23:38

Phone in sick. It’s not unheard of.

Life’s too short to be miserable.

If they want to keep staff they should treat them better.

Good luck in your new job.

GlowingOrb · 25/11/2020 23:39

They might mark you not eligible for rehire.

NewNameNewJob · 25/11/2020 23:41

Ordinarily I would say just work it, but in the current climate I would absolutely say do you not feel as though you may have a migraine coming on?

yellowcatss · 26/11/2020 00:19

@lifestooshort123

Always best to leave on friendly terms. You might want to work for them again, or need a reference, or bump into your manager in another job or a social setting. I agree with this. It's also about self respect and not running away when things get tough.
you swayed me actually what you will do has an impact on others
AnotherNameForChristmas · 26/11/2020 01:45

Work your last day. Don't let them get you down, and then walk out and be away from it all.
Don't burn bridges, you never know what may happen in the future.

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