Is it normal to panic after getting your engagement ring? Not about the wedding or the marriage but the ring itself. I loved my ring when I picked it. Its classic, simple and shiny, little flower shape that looks like a solitaire (see pic). But suddenly I'm thinking the stones should have been bigger, band thinner, or straighter. I should have considered how it would look with a wedding ring or other jewellery. My partner would have bought a more expensive one but I didn't want him to have to pay it off in these hard times. Starting to regret I'm not more of a diva 😂. Worried people will think it looks cheap, it should have had more sparkle. Maybe just need to get used to having something on that finger or bummed I can't get my nails done right now. The Christmas jewelry stores and their crazy upselling didn't help 😂. Think I'm freaking that it's such a permanent decision? Not actually asking if I'm unreasonable, per say, of course I couldn't be more blessed. Just wondering if it's common to freak out a little?