So I have been seething and stewing over this for a week or two, and have received directly opposing views from the two people I have confided in about whether I was overreacting in this situation.
I have had, to date, 5 miscarriages and a stillbirth over the span of the last 4 years. Previously, I was under a fetal medicine consultant, and he did all relevant tests, and diagnosed me with APS, a clotting disorder. After my last miscarriage, during which I didn't receive the blood thinners I needed ( a whole other thread in itself) I was finally referred to my local RMC and am now under a consultant gynaecologist/obstetrician. He has decided, for reasons only known to himself, that he doesn't want to accept my current diagnosis, and wants to start all testing again from scratch. When I asked him 2 weeks ago what medication or care would be offered if I fell pregnant in the meantime, I was told that nothing would be offered, bar an early reassurance scan. I immediately flew off the handle, and told him that if I lost another baby due to his reluctance to do his bloody job, then I would pursue a complaint to the highest possible level, as I feel this attitude to my babies dying time and time again is absolutely unacceptable. Was I being unreasonable, and does anyone have any advice to offer? Sorry it's so long.