Ok so I may be soft here but really need advice
Last Christmas I found dh on social media (we don't have this never have) he came home drunk one day and I went to use his phone to ring one of the kids see what time they was back from their DM house. And it opened on a social media app, his name and messages and pictures of my kids and a message to a few girls. I was literally 3 weeks of giving birth and he said it was one of the older kids
I ain't stupid but I had to let it go I couldn't face the stress of it as I had way to much going on with my other dc been very ill. long story short I never got answers just got brushed under carpet an he swore black an blue nothing happened and I needed his support back then... but ok whatever
He's been very off, short and snappy with me recently and he's always "nipping" out a lot just not his usual self
His Apple Watch is always left on the computer desk unles he's going out running, he asked if he was able to disable messages and emails to it- he couldn't if he wanted keep his apps so he's now got it with him 24/7 ?
About 3 weeks ago I felt quite ill, had the worstttt stomach pains to the point I couldn't move or breath and iv been very very sore down bellow, it's been very smelly discharge, and very paint full when I wee, not itchy at all! Iv done a round of thrush cream and tablets and nothing (tried this hoping it was thrush) Iv had thrush loads when iv been pregnant -certainly not pregnant *
Iv never had anything sexually transmitted and iv been with him since I was 17, had all checks when I was pregnant and was all clear obviosuly!. I just wanted to know if anyone has had anything with similar symptoms, I havnt mentioned anything to him as it's not worth the headache I'd get. Iv ordered a testing kit to my mums so will be doing that as soon as possible and my results will go to my best friends phone so he won't know. She suggested I say I had a one night stand - here is his number contact him then see if he comes clean to me maybe? Just to watch him squirm I suppose and maybe me to get some answers I deserve instead of him been a shit bag getting away with murder as always.
I'm kind of hoping I have something so I know he's been doing the dirty and I can kick him out ? That would be my prof wouldn't it instead of me sat here thinking "is he"
Don't want nasty comments just some advice on it please x