So the circumstances of this ridiculous year have meant my husband and I (and our 21 month old) are staying in my parents' motorhome, on their drive. We lived here before when our daughter was born and we were between houses, and the relationship between my dad and husband swiftly deteriorated. I am horrifically in the middle. In general, my dad is prissy, oversensitive and has ludicrously high expectations of my hubby. However, hubby is far from a Saint, and he falls into almost teenage behaviour, slumped over his phone barely engaging sometimes. I am exhausted from desperately trying to cover his slack with tidying after himself etc, and trying to excuse his behaviour. But today, my dad asked if anyone wanted a cup of tea, and he just didn't respond. Then my dad made a comment when he brought me my cuppa that he hadn't made one for hubby because he hadn't said anything. Hubby acted like my dad was being an idiot, saying he hadn't wanted one. Then when he tried to moan to me about my dad being funny, I said he should've thanked my dad for offer even if he didn't want one. Then he got really upset, saying he felt ganged up on and that I should take his side. But I thought he was rude!! So, am I being unreasonable?! Should I be honest about what I think of his behaviour, even though we are living in a really tricky situation for him? His solution is to leave, but that would cost more than we can afford right now. I am desperate to avoid more debt than is absolutely necessary. Guys, seriously, am I being unreasonable?!