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kama · 18/10/2007 11:54
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bosscat · 18/10/2007 14:10
I know facebook is different things to different people but I just have genuine friends on there, people I want to see pics of my kids and who I enjoy chatting to. Either friends I'm with now, or good work colleagues or old friends I only see once a year due to locations. Unless he's still good friends with her which it doesn't sound like or you wouldn't have been bothered about facebook, can't see why he'd want her on his list?
meemar · 18/10/2007 14:24
I agree bosscat - it does depend how you use facebook. I use it like you do, but my DH has about 150 friends because he uses it to get in touch with anyone and everyone from his past!
Some of them he's just made the initial contact with and others he messages more regularly, including exes and I don't have a problem with it.
Padington - whether you are being unreasonable depends on why you don't want them to be friends on Facebook. If you are genuinely worried about infidelity you need to get to the bottom of it with your BF. If it is just irrational jealousy because your boyfriend had a past, then you need to sort out your own issues - you can't dictate who he can be friends with.
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