AIBU?
Warning - this is very petty and trivial but I’m hangry and have a (non corona cold).
Husband and I both work. I do 99% of cooking. Mostly cook same for family. Sometimes kids vs grown up options. Today wasn’t feeling well so husband said he’d handle the kids through the evening. Yay. Started so well.
Had made a bunch of kebab sticks for dinner earlier (little time when juggling in the evening. 13 in fact (this is relevant!). Told him that was dinner.
Was hiding upstairs (and actually working incidentally) till I got hungry and popped down for my share.
All 13 eaten. Nothing else in fridge. NOTHING.
The two kids were given 3 each, he ate the ‘remaining 7’. I pointed out half of those were mine (incidentally I had planned he’d have 4 and me 3, as he always eats more). Aggressive response is I should have told him and requested he keep them for me. WTF.
So I’m slightly sick, very starving, the fridge is empty, I’m now waiting 40 mins for an overpriced take away that I don’t want, because I didn’t call dibs on the family meal I prepared for all 4 of us like I always do. And really disappointed to think he gobbled an extra large portion, didn’t think of all the above, and sees no reason to see my point of view let alone apologise. In fact is telling me I'm unreasonable...
It’s annoying but also sad there was no reflex to even think of me when I sometimes feel I spend all my time thinking of others. It’s a minuscule example and prob very middle class problems but gah, it’s very irritating.
Is my feeling out of sorts and being hungry making me hypersensitive here (usually what I’m accused of even when not out of sorts).
Gah!