Tell me your husband is also on the call, grrr

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This has happened me twice in last few days and it really annoys me. I rang a friend of mine and we are chatting away and next thing her husband answers my question or joins in conversation.... ffs is it not really rude to mention that I’m on speaker and husband is in room.

This is why I hate when I zoom my friend.

She "carries me" all over the house. Suddenly I'm in the kids room being instructed to say goodnight to them (I haven't seen them in a year so they look rather bemused) then I'm brought down the stairs into the kitchen whilst she prepares something to eat, then after about 10 mins I'll hear the DHs voice and realise he was behind me on the kitchen sofa the whole time!

You have to be damn careful with some people.

YANBU
I haven't had a one to one call with my sister for over a year, literally cannot talk about anything properly, even got the phone passed around when she had guests once, they were as mortified as I was!
I gave up going out with my other sister because she repeatedly turned up with someone in tow or completely changed what we had planned, or both! "Oh my friend doesn't like the place we planned to go to so we're going x place instead ".... boils my piss!

I hate this! Not as bad as a friend who always brought her partner along to meet ups that I thought were going to be 1-on-1. I had been friends with her partner too before they got together but that doesn’t mean you can just start assuming he can come to everything!!

Elspeth that cracked me up about you being carried around the house and all the while DH is there in the background haha

People have no awareness sometimes