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To have misunderstood the meaning of this word my whole life?

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Lemonsaretheonlyfruit · 11/11/2020 15:21

Salubrious.

I always thought it meant luxurious. Turns out it means healthy or health giving. (My 10 year old DS asked me this morning so I looked it up just to double check I was giving him the correct definition!)

Who knew? (Probably everyone apart from me). Any more of these to share?

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Kippersbigfeet · 12/11/2020 18:06

Another Scot here that says banal and canal do ryhme.

I detest seeing bought and brought used the wrong way round.

numberoneson · 12/11/2020 18:07

(of a place) pleasant; not run-down.
"an over-priced flat in a none too salubrious area"

Similar:
pleasant
agreeable
nice
select
upmarket
high-class
leafy
fashionable
expensive
luxurious
grand
fancy
posh
swanky
plushy
classy
glitzy
swish
swank
h
Opposite:
unpleasant

    downmarket

Origin
mid 16th century: from Latin salubris (from salus ‘health’) + -ous.
Translate salubrious to
Use over time for: salubrious
Definitions from Oxford Languages

Mere1 · 12/11/2020 18:11

Banal does rhyme with canal if you have a northern accent. Southern and RP would not have it rhyming. Neither pronunciation is wrong. Grammar/ usage can be wrong. Accents shouldn’t be judged as ‘wrong’.

crowisland · 12/11/2020 18:20

Hoi polloi is Greek for 'the many'
so, 'the hoi polloi' is redundant

Wilkie1956mog · 12/11/2020 18:32

Isn't banal pronounced like canal then??

Danny8558 · 12/11/2020 18:35

Fulsome does not mean great.
It means sickeningly obsequious.

Mamanyt · 12/11/2020 18:42

This isn't exactly the same, but...am I crazy to think that "apathy" is the opposite of both "love" and "hate?"

Tomasinabombadil · 12/11/2020 18:51

@parietal

I'd say 'canal' with an AL at the end, and 'banal' with an 'arl' at the end so I think they don't rhyme
Yes, I agree CanAl and BanArl
Tomasinabombadil · 12/11/2020 18:53

@AndromedaDud

"Unctuous" was used all the time to refer to what I assumed was sumptuous, indulgent food - perhaps like those m&s ads with the oozing chocolate fondant. It means oily/greasy, so I can kind of see why "indulgent" food might be oily but it sounds horrible now!
Nigella Lawson has used that word when describing her delicious food🤔
waterjungle · 12/11/2020 19:00

Dearth - I always thought it meant a wealth of something. Instead it means the opposite!

OddHoleySocks · 12/11/2020 19:05

Isn't banal pronounced like canal then??

Depends on your accent. Some people seem to add an 'r' to banal. (which is just a daft thing to do if you have a rhotic accent like mine)

CheetasOnFajitas · 12/11/2020 19:11

@OddHoleySocks

Isn't banal pronounced like canal then??

Depends on your accent. Some people seem to add an 'r' to banal. (which is just a daft thing to do if you have a rhotic accent like mine)

No they’re not adding an “r” they are using the letter “r” as a written way to denote a long “a” sound when trying to describe here how they say it- it’s because non-rhotic speakers pronounce “ar” as “aa”- think how RP speakers say “car” , far etc.
SoupDragon · 12/11/2020 19:12

Some people seem to add an 'r' to banal.

No they don't. BanARL and banAHL are the same sound. No added Rs at all (not people with a rhotic accent can't seem to grasp that)

badlydrawncat · 12/11/2020 19:13

I'm always surprised at how many people seem to think that 'simplistic' is another way of saying something is 'simple'. It's becoming quite common and sets my teeth on edge.

AndromedaDud · 12/11/2020 19:35

tomas yes, Nigella was one of the people I had in mind!

LizzieAnt · 12/11/2020 19:42

@SoupDragon

Some people seem to add an 'r' to banal.

No they don't. BanARL and banAHL are the same sound. No added Rs at all (not people with a rhotic accent can't seem to grasp that)

I have a rhotic accent and do understand that now, but it took a bit Grin Probably safer to use -ahl rather than -arn to avoid cofusion on here, I'd say. It made me understand why people on British tv often say Dara Ó Briain's first name oddly though (he's on Mock the Week). I think the r confuses people with non-rhotic accent in this case, as they say Daah-ra. It's Da-ra, short a's. Don't think he minds though, but as I say it just always sounds odd to my ears..like people saying Haah-ry for Harry.
Nomoreporridge · 12/11/2020 19:43

On the canal/ banal pronunciation-

If you have a Scottish accent, there is no long ‘a’ sound, so you can ‘correctly’ pronounce canal and banal and they rhyme.

If you are English ( RP in particular), they will sound different.

It’s like the words ‘aunt’ and ‘ant’ - in a Scottish accent they are exactly the same.

They are all correct.

However, the long ‘a’ sound is a relatively recent affection in southern English accents.

Shakespeare would pronounce canal and banal so they rhyme.

But languages develop over time. And words often change meaning.

echt · 12/11/2020 19:48

I still cringe at using the word Docile in a conversation with a friend regarding her son. What I meant by that was that he was calm, easygoing, sweet and lovely, however she took huge offence and tore a strip of me for insinuating that he wasn’t very bright. I still don’t know what the word really means and I don’t use it any more

Are you in the north? When I was teenager -'70s - calling someone docile, usually fucking docile, was an insult: idiot/ dim. I haven't heard it used in years. Might have been a teen trend.

CheetasOnFajitas · 12/11/2020 19:50

Probably safer to use -ahl rather than -arn to avoid cofusion on here, I'd say.

Confusion, and also offence- it never ceases to amaze me that people use this way of writing “phonetically” and don’t stop to think that huge chunks of the population pronounce their “r”s and will not read it in the same way.

Ddot · 12/11/2020 19:55

Altruistic I thought it meant selfish ooops

Ddot · 12/11/2020 20:05

haha poor you. Docile! I thought it meant dim but actually means easily led

OddHoleySocks · 12/11/2020 20:21

Oh I totally understand that.

But I'm amazed how many people seem to think it's a sensible way to denote that sound, when it sounds very different to a significant proportion of society.

LizzieAnt · 12/11/2020 20:21

Probably safer to use -ahl rather than -arn to avoid cofusion on here, I'd say.

I meant -arl causing confusion, rather than -arn causing cofusion Blush

RuudGullitOnAShed · 12/11/2020 20:30

What does lucked out mean?

I have one friend who uses it to mean I was really lucky and another who uses it to mean I had bad luck.

It always confuses me

Gwenhwyfar · 12/11/2020 20:31

" I think the r confuses people with non-rhotic accent in this case, as they say Daah-ra."

I disagree. If you have a non-rhotic accent you still pronounce the 'r' when it is between two vowels. Non-rhotic means you don't pronounce an 'r' when it comes before a consonant or is the last letter.

It's the fact that it's an Irish name I think. If it were English it would have two 'r's to indicate that the 'a' sound is short e.g. Darren.

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