I’ve always had a rocky relationship with my dad. He walked out on my mam when I was little.
So he has helped me out financially a few times. However because of this he is so arrogant about it. I was very grateful for his help but will not take anymore help because of his attitude afterwards. We don’t visit him often as his girlfriend doesn’t really like me or my husband and I don’t think she likes my ds.
We was over his house (pre lockdown) and was playing in the the garden and picked a flower and was so excited about giving it to me.
I witnessed my dads girlfriend yelling at him and telling him what a naughty boy he was and to go and sit in the house and get out of her sight! He’s 4! My dad also witnessed this and just shrugged his shoulders at me.
Me and my husband walked out and went home. I’m fuming that she felt she could speak to him like this. I feel this wasn’t naughty behaviour. The flower one of many and certainly not a prize rose or anything. He was heart broken after and was so confused.
AIBU to not want anything to do with the pair of them?
Am I being unfair on my little boy that he doesn’t see his grandad? Not that he saw him often anyway.
I just feel so uncomfortable with his girlfriend acting how she did.