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To not understand the trend for 'hampers' as presents

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Lockdownlumpy · 09/11/2020 10:04

Am I the only one who doesn't get, or go in for this trend?
My Facebook is full of people selling or making 'hampers' but I'm not talking about a wicker basket and luxury food, these are a plastic basket with a few things from the pound shop wrapped in cellophane.
I just don't get it. Most contain pound shop shampoo and soap. For me those are essential items and therefore not a great gift, unless they are lovely luxury or special versions that I would never justify buying for myself.
If you and your family like these I am not knocking you at all, taste is individual after all.
I'm just wondering, am I the odd one out here? Or anyone else like me and just doesn't get it?

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AlexCabot · 09/11/2020 10:46

yetanother I've seen a few hampers made up of the stock that MLMers can't shift.

just5morepeas · 09/11/2020 10:46

A well thought out hamper, specifically tailored for the recipient is a lovely gift.

A plastic wrapped box of cheap tat is just that. Idg why they're suddenly so popular.

It's on the same level for me as cakes/fudge/brownies "decorated" with chocolate bars and "treat boxes" - all things I see all over Facebook atm.

Simplyunacceptable · 09/11/2020 10:46

Obviously depends what is in the hamper. The ones you are alluding to filled with pound shop tat are obviously crap but you’re not saying you’d turn down a F&M hamper if someone offered you one, are you?

WhatKatyDidNxt · 09/11/2020 10:47

@MysweetAudrina this sounds lovely. Random tut from the pound shop then less so

WillSantaBeComingToTown · 09/11/2020 10:48

How much unwanted crap can you get in 1 basket.
Lets put a sachet of hot chocolate in a hamper and call it a gift.

Lockdownlumpy · 09/11/2020 10:49

@flaviaritt

Why do so many people use MN to bitch about the presents other people are kind enough to get for them?
No one has ever given me one, I am not being remotely ungrateful. I am merely expressing that I don't get why people spend £15-20 on a cellophane wrapped plastic basket from fb when the items contain within cost no more than £8, and are usually fairly standard household items anyway.
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WillSantaBeComingToTown · 09/11/2020 10:49

@Simplyunacceptable

Obviously depends what is in the hamper. The ones you are alluding to filled with pound shop tat are obviously crap but you’re not saying you’d turn down a F&M hamper if someone offered you one, are you?
Honestly yes

We get a couple each year- wine in summer and a couple of Christmas ones

The stuff isn't very usable (and we cook a lot), the wine isn't very nice

We now donate them as soon as they arrive.

Lockdownlumpy · 09/11/2020 10:50

@Simplyunacceptable

Obviously depends what is in the hamper. The ones you are alluding to filled with pound shop tat are obviously crap but you’re not saying you’d turn down a F&M hamper if someone offered you one, are you?
I have yet to be offered a F+M Hamper but suspect they are probably quite nice and I might well enjoy the contents Grin
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ThePluckOfTheCoward · 09/11/2020 10:50

I agree Op. If it doesn't have Fortnum & Mason on the the side and isn't filled with luxury food and booze it isn't really a hamster hamper at all.

notanothertakeaway · 09/11/2020 10:53

@Hailtomyteeth

I can remember being a single parent and any necessary item was a welcome gift, because it freed up a few pence I could spend on a loaf or a tin of beans. I look at my daughter now, in her five bedroomed house with two luxury cars on the drive and think "No-one would guess that you went hungry to bed, that our only luxury was a 17p packet of biscuits." I remember a friend used to leave 50p or so when she came round for a cup of tea, and that I would - when I saw a bargain - buy her daughter something to wear. I expect there are still people facing that kind of life today, who are very happy to receive a few essential items as a gift.
@Hailtomyteeth in that situation, I can imagine that a few essentials, wrapped up nicely and put in a cardboard box, would have been a welcome gift, as it would relieve pressure on your limited budget. And better to get practical gifts that you would use
flaviaritt · 09/11/2020 10:53

am merely expressing that I don't get why people spend £15-20 on a cellophane wrapped plastic basket from fb when the items contain within cost no more than £8, and are usually fairly standard household items anyway.

Fair enough, sorry. Maybe they’re daft. 🤷🏻‍♀️

AlexCabot · 09/11/2020 10:53

I wonder if there's a market for hampers full of hamsters? Might take that on Dragon's Den.

BawJaws · 09/11/2020 10:53

People are just doing their best

Lockdownlumpy · 09/11/2020 10:54

This one for example contains toothpaste. It's not fancy toothpaste, it's just colgate.

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WillSantaBeComingToTown · 09/11/2020 10:55

@AlexCabot

I wonder if there's a market for hampers full of hamsters? Might take that on Dragon's Den.
I would like a hamster hamper. They would need wood shavings in the basket not cellophane.
lottiegarbanzo · 09/11/2020 10:55

The 'cheap tat in cellophane' trend you're talking about OP, is just people with limited resources, trying anything to make a few quid.

The question isn't so much 'who wants to receive that?' as 'who on earth buys that tat, to give as a gift?'.

I suspect the answer is, mostly, the seller's friends and family.

Lockdownlumpy · 09/11/2020 10:56

This one for example, cost of chocolate approx £6-7 from poundland/b+m type places.
This is sold for £20 because its a 'hamper' !

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MaybeNew · 09/11/2020 10:58

My friendship group agreed to stop gifts. We (usually) go out together instead. There is too much stuff in the world. Shoot me but I would not be grateful for a cellophane hamper.

PatriciaPerch · 09/11/2020 10:58

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Kissthepastrychef · 09/11/2020 10:58

Could I ask you all...

I make cakes (as in pastry chef, registered etc, bona fide chef) as a home based business. One of the companies I sell through has been encouraging us to list postal hampers for Christmas gifts.

If you were buying or receiving a postal cakey hamper what sort of thing would you like to see in it ? I was considering one being a selection of festive themed iced cookies. And a proper hamper including stuff like a bag of meringue kisses, fudge, a small Christmas cake, a jar of a lovely festive jam or curd, suitably flavoured marshmallows, two small festively decorated chocolate slabs, mince pies etc.
What sort of things would you like to give or receive ?

Ketrina · 09/11/2020 10:58

I don't care if I get gifted basic things like shower gel... Saves me buying it I guess

Igotthemheavyboobs · 09/11/2020 10:59

@Lockdownlumpy

This one for example, cost of chocolate approx £6-7 from poundland/b+m type places. This is sold for £20 because its a 'hamper' !
I'm in the wrong business!
DuzzyFuck · 09/11/2020 10:59

I am merely expressing that I don't get why people spend £15-20 on a cellophane wrapped plastic basket from fb when the items contain within cost no more than £8, and are usually fairly standard household items anyway

Exactly @Lockdownlumpy. If a friend or family member was struggling I'd much rather spend the entire £15-£20 on essentials for them (and ones they actually want/need) than pay someone else a tenner to wrap £8 worth of random bits in cellophane!! It boggles my mind!

PatriciaPerch · 09/11/2020 10:59

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nosswith · 09/11/2020 11:00

OP YANBU to not like them and point out the extra cost for just seemingly fancy wrapping and a basket.