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To be worried about having taken a long period of sick leave

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santasicerink · 09/11/2020 08:16

I’ve had 7 weeks off work. I started this job just a couple of weeks before the first lockdown, and although we were WHF throughout it and therefore on full pay it wasn’t anything like a ‘normal’ day at work. Obviously not my fault, but still. I then found out I was pregnant.

We went back at the start of September. After a couple of weeks the environment was awful. I ended up calling in sick after an awful, bullying meeting. Because of when my baby is due my maternity leave kicked in automatically yesterday, and I won’t be returning to that post so basically I only really worked there for five weeks.

Will this impact on future roles, or will it be an anomaly? I’ve never been signed off before.

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santasicerink · 09/11/2020 10:14

I’ve no intention of lying, I’m not really sure why you think this? As I’ve said, I recognise having seven weeks off isn’t brilliant, on the other hand it was the least-worst option. It’s public sector if that makes a difference.

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DianaT1969 · 09/11/2020 12:30

Out of interest OP, did you have jobs before this one that will supply references? I'm sensing an undercurrent that you yourself don't think you did a good job in this role.
As someone who has interviewed a lot of people, I'd easily pick up on that in discussing your experience.
It might be best to keep leading discussion back to previous roles during your interview and [mentally] write this one off as a 2020 Covid aberration.

santasicerink · 09/11/2020 12:32

I don’t think I did do a very good job, but I didn’t really have a chance to - I was only physically present for six weeks out of an ‘employed’ nine months!

I’ve worked in other places yes. I need to focus on them more. It’s surprisingly knocked my confidence a lot.

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TheTrollFairy · 09/11/2020 12:34

If there was no issues with your lockdown work then you can’t get a bad reference. They can just comment saying you did the job. Anything else (either positive or negative) is just speculation which you can’t do for a reference

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