Quite honestly I can't cope with the daily mess. Any sort of untidiness just gives me the worst anxiety and I don't know how to deal with it at the moment 
his favourite thing to do at the moment is to pull all of the cushions off the sofa and pile them all up in the middle of the room!
How can I stop him from doing this? Or am I resigned to the fact that he's a toddler and this is just how it's going to be? Arghh!