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to donate gifted baby clothes I don't like?

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hotpotlover · 04/11/2020 20:54

So we had a beautiful baby boy on August 12th. A couple that we're friends with has a 20 month old boy, so they donated us several massive bags of baby clothes. Most of it ranges from 9 to 12 months.

The problem is that I don't like most of the clothes, they have slogans on them or cartoon characters and I prefer plain coloured baby clothes. Also some of them look a bit ragged.

My sister has a 4 1/2 year old boy and she's loaned me his baby clothes. I need to give them back once my boy has grown out of them, which is fine for me. Her style is however more in line with mine.

My mother also likes purchasing clothes for my boy. So with my sister's clothes, my mother's gifts and the occasional purchase from us we will manage fine.

So I was thinking of donating our friend's clothing to charity. Do you think that is okay or does that make me a bad friend?

When they brought the clothes over I didn't look at them for a couple of days. When I finally discovered they weren't my style I was too polite to contact them and told them I didn't like them. I didn't want to appear like a snob. Technically it doesn't matter what a baby wears as they grow out of it so quickly anyway, but I don't want to put my baby in clothes I don't like.

We live in a 3 bed room semi detached house and I feel like these unwanted 5
clothes take up a massive amount of spaces, so I want to get rid.

OP posts:
SpeccyLime · 05/11/2020 07:35

I would let them know that you’re a little overrun with clothes - blame grandparent enthusiasm - and that you’re passing on a few things, and if they don’t want them back donate away. I’ve been given some hideous baby things and if the person who gifted it didn’t want it back I’ve donated it. You don’t have to dress your baby in things you don’t like just to be polite ☺️

LittleMissLockdown · 05/11/2020 07:39

@upsetandang

if they are 9 to 12 months I'd keep a few back for dribble, mucky feeding time. that age is a nightmare for clothes.
This is what I was going to say. A bag of clothes that you dont really like are perfect for using at meal times, during messy play activities and for nursery.
SnuggyBuggy · 05/11/2020 07:41

Id just send them on somewhere. In my experience most people who give you clothes tell you to do this. I've never had anyone expect clothes back and certainly couldn't remember whose clothes "belonged" where.

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