If you recognise some of the details, it's because I have posted before. Basically a 'friend' of both DH and mine, had asked for numerous favours from me, including childcare, days out, etc. I wanted to help her out and so went above and beyond all throughout the previous lockdown and beyond.
She now acts like I don't exist, and even if I see her in the playground won't even bother saying hi. Nothing happened - I don't know why. Even though I was upset at the time, DH and I decided to just ignore it and move on.
However, deep down I blame DH for encouraging the friendship with this person. All along, I kept saying that my gut instinct felt something was wrong. This person never reciprocated anything, never did anything that a friend would do, never messaged unless they wanted something.
I know that DH can be a bit enthusiastic on friendships as he doesn't have many friends and that he had good intentions, but deep down I feel angry. Angry that i kept telling him i didn't want to get involved with this person.
We haven't spoken to the person since all this, but I feel like in a few weeks when they come crawling back being nice, DH will try and downplay everything and act like nothing happened. If this happens, I think I am going to lose it.
I know in my head, I am done with it all but just don't know how to set the boundary, so this person cannot reappear in our lives again when it suits them.