God, I came onto this thread, thinking, how lovely and prehaps I can get some inspiration too - was not prepared for how horrible some posters have been about handmade/homemade items, and so judgemental of OP.
Not everyone can afford presents, not only that but op has stated her children understand some about consumerism and plastic, the environment ect. I am another person who historically has had to buy items second hand, and I have been fine with that, as op rightfully said, by the following Xmas most things are hardly even touched.
I spoke to my Dc the other day about clearing out the toys he doesnt play with so santa had room for new.
These will go on shpock for cheap, or to charity when they reopen.
When I think back to my childhood, I dont remember most of the things I got for Christmas. I mostly remember getting an orange in my stocking, a sparkly box in shape of an Xmas tree one year, and my Nokia 3210 in my teenage years.
What I do remember is Xmas Dinner, being with family, opening gifts in bed with my mum, the excitement of Xmas eve etc etc.
Poster who say that op is being unkind and because of the abnormal year weve all had she should be buying her children loads of plastic tat, your gifts shop brought gifts will not make up for anything the kids have been through, which most of the time, I think we are more affected than they are.
Also to add, for one birthday my mum gave me a tile, with stuck on jigsaw puzzles and ribbons to hang. I loved it and still have it.
My father and I sewed a Teddy bear together once, I love it and still have it. These are real gifts, even if not appreciated at the time (and sounds like op kids would appreciate) chances are, they will when they are older and realise what thier mother was doing.
As for adults, even if you're not keen on the handmade gift, it should at least be appreciated for all the time, love and thought that went into it, and if you really can't stand it, please ask the giver just for charity donation in the future.
I dont get any handmade gifts, and I would be touched beyond words if I did.
Op, dont let anyone make you feel guilty for your choices. Happy crafting!