They should have been told all along not to go. I couldn't agree more
.......and I couldn't disagree more.
My dd - and ALL the other freshers I have either asked her about (her friends, from 2 schools, and 2 hobbies where she knows a LOT of people) , or that are the dc of my friends (weirdly, that includes 5 of my colleagues at work plus other friends from all sorts of areas) were 100% ready to go off to pastures new, after 6 months of being confined to home without school, sports, hobbies, 18th birthday parties, after A-level holidays, festivals, part time work,, and all the other things 18 yr old would usually have being doing.
I've yet to find a single person amongst the dozens i've asked about who regrets going or who wants to come home.
I'm not saying there aren't any - of course there are - but stop perpetuating the myth that 'it is terrible for all students. It really isn't. Every year, there are students who are homesick. Every year there are students who don't like their flatmates or don't like their course, or who drop out for one reason or another. Some of those wanting to be at home would be amongst those who always drop out or change courses. I expect there are probably more this year. But I am certain that the overwhelming majority of students would rather be living away from their parents with their new friends, than living with their parents at a time when they can't get out and meet friends at home.
I am 100% certain dd's flatmates (and they are in self isolatin at the moment) are a LOT more fun to be with than dh and I. Oh, and when one has been unwell, they have all looked after that person, just the same as they looked after dd when she became ill on her 2nd day at university - before anyone had had the chance to get to know her.