Am I over thinking this but... if all these “models” predicted the second wave to have been worse than the first, and prior to the first wave people were going about their normal lives without restriction - surely this demonstrates all the restrictions / masks and curfews etc didn’t/doesn’t work? We're back here anyway
Prior to the first wave, the virus was new, had only relatively recently arrived in the UK and therefore the amount of virus circulating in the community was small.
But then it grew and, as is the way of highly transmissable infections, numbers increased geometrically. This was the first wave. The lockdown worked, it reduced the rate of infection, and numbers affected fell.
But it was still present in the community, and it was still being transmitted. When lockdown ended, cases remained low but people continued to become infected, albeit much more slowly, because of the infection control measures taken.
When schools reopened and students went back to university, the pubs and restaurants were back in business, the rate of infection increased because the numbers of people in contact with one another was so much greater than it had been since lockdown and that brought us to where we are now: the second wave.
The only things that would stop new infections are a vaccine and a massive vaccination programme, or letting the virus run its course until everyone (or nearly everyone) has either had it and become immune or died.
A vaccine is still a long way off. Even if we disregarded the ethics of allowing large numbers to become ill, die or face longterm disability, letting it run its course would have massive implications for society's ability to function. How would we cope if essential services (emergency services, energy and water supply, healthcare, food supply and distribution, telecoms) became unable to function because so many staff were ill and unable to work?
Effective testing, tracking and tracing would have made a big difference. Asymptomatic people could be identified and isolated, which would reduce the rate of infection, but we don't have that. That is why everyone will have to reduce the number of people they are in contact with, to reduce the level of infection to one that enables our health system to cope and society to function. And the better compliance is, the quicker that will happen.