DH and I have been together 17 years, his parents and family live in Denmark, where cases are low. We have spent Christmas with them every year, expect 2 years. Last year we didn't go, which made dh very sad, which I can understand as its the 2nd time of the year he usually sees his family. Anyway, we had planned to go there again this Christmas for 2 weeks, which is how long we usually stay. I have told DH that I'm really not comfortable travelling in the depths of winter with 4 dc, to mix and mingle with tons of relatives over that 2 week period. His view is that it is safer than here, as there are less cases, and he can't see my issue with it, including all the transmission risk that comes from travelling via plane - he seems to think airports are very safe, and it's safe when you get there. I'm very uncomfortable with it, and actually scared of taking the risk. He wants to book flights and accommodation, but I've said no, he says I'm being unreasonable, that he doesn't get to see his family, and his parents are old, so it might be the last Christmas, I remind him that any one of us could get covid and die and it isn't worth the risk. He says I'm unreasonable, and being in the UK is more dangerous, am I being unreasonable?
Thank you