My sister in law is married and lives in NZ ..Her mother is law was very supportive and supported her a lot and till now she is helping her out .She has 1 dc and another on the way .Mum in law stays and looks after child and makes food for her and there family .I stay in England all alone , no family , no help .
Eveytime she calls she compares , I feel very bad about it .I told my hubby too but he says you are over reacting .
Everyone in my hubbys family compares us to her family .They have bought a house early , they are having children early .My father in law would call and just say , you should have done the same thing as they are doing .Its ridiculous comparison .
My sister is also a big show off .New dress , New car she will post it the very first thing in the whatspp group of the family .
I have my own issues here , no help and a stubborn hubby who will do nothing in the house .I have a single child and already feel like a single parent and on the top it up , this shit loads of comparison .
AIBU if I cut all ties with her ? she gives me a lot of stress and I cant stand it anymore .
I have stopped picking her calls .Yes I understand that she needs to talk to her brothers family often and keep in touch but I feel ridiculous and trapped .I have often asked my hubby to just talk to her and leave me alone .I dont want to be in middle of a brother and sister and I have no emotions towards her .What should I do ?