One thing I loathe is people filming themselves being kind and posting it on social media. The ones of someone filming themselves giving shoes to a beggar or similar.
I also hate the videos where someone holds up 100 signs you have to read which culminates in them doing something nice for someone because of sad backstory.
If you really were being kind, you wouldn't do it in order to film the person's reaction (talk about pressurising) in order to validate in public how thoughtful and wonderful you were to the poor sad person. Just do it, without hopes of validation or gratification. Don't turn others into a prop for your feelz.