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Prank to far?

151 replies

Rainbowbagel · 28/10/2020 11:36

I have been the victim of a practical joke at work and it has really hit me hard.

A famous person that I really admired came into work the other day and I served them, I loved this person when I was younger more than I do now and although admittedly with all the headgear and mask I didn’t recognise them at first once they’d left and I’d realised who I served I because overwhelmed with excitement and nostalgia.

Two of my colleagues popped out soon after and came back in 10 minutes later presenting me with a box, it had a cake inside and my name and said celebrities signature on the front. They told me they’d bumped into this celeb and explained what happened and then the celeb had got me a cake and signed the box. (You can see where this is going)

I asked them repeatedly if it was a joke to which they swore adamantly it wasn’t, I proceeded to put it on social media and called those close to me in excitement all whilst asking them if it was a wind up!

A whole week later I am doing a job at work and I notice the same to sniggering in the corner, I asked what they were laughing at and they said not to worry followed by whispering, they carried on giggling and I felt a little left out so asked again, I then started to get the impression I was the joke, I asked if I had something on my face, if I’d said something to upset them or something silly. The laughing worsened and I started to panic and after about ten minutes of me practically begging to be let in on this joke they revealed that the celeb thing had all been a prank. I buried my head, informed them that I was extremely embarrassed and ran to the toiled where I burst into tears.

I have had an extremely tough few weeks (haven't we all!) I lost my job earlier in the year due to Covid and luckily managed to get this to help with bills and keep me afloat. I am struggling financially and I’m so lonely and this has just really got to me.

I counted these people as friends and I just feel so betrayed, the original prank was/is funny but to let me call/ tell people, to tag the celebrity to thank them Blush to be laughing behind my back for a whole week!

I am to embarrassed to speak with anyone about it and get a big emotional when I do so just wanted some (friendly) advice really

Being unreasonable - I am being overly sensitive

Not unreasonable- too far, almost bullying

I think I’ve just been having it so tough recently and this really got me through and now the realisation that it was all a joke at my expense hurts a little deeper.

Brb, just taking the signed fake box down from my wall Blush

OP posts:
Derekhello · 28/10/2020 12:03

@BlueThistles

OP hold your head up high.. they are twats... you on the other hand sound very nice 🌺
This in bucketloads 😊

They are a couple of wankers, don’t give them any headspace.
Flowers

AliceMcK · 28/10/2020 12:13

Too far. Fine play a joke but they let it go on too long.

Don’t let them get to you. It’s a very hard time for so many, try and focus on yourself x

InescapableDeath · 28/10/2020 12:16

How have they been to you since? I think it was very cruel. You believed people you trusted, nothing wrong with that. It's not being gullible if it's plausible, which is why I HATE jokes like that. It's really not funny.

I'd be tearful just like you, but to them you need to pretend you're over it and just be cool with them until you can bear to be otherwise. Big hugs.

They are complete dickwads.

FizzyGreenWater · 28/10/2020 12:17

God how weird!!!!

Letting that go on for a week? Actually getting a cake?!

Um, they are the bizarre ones, not you. Of course you would have to believe it when they kept it going that long-? Who would think that people would be weird enough to do that and not just start laughing after ten minutes?

Give a bit of a wide berth and if it's mentioned, just say 'Look, let's not talk about it, I'm a bit weirded out that you would do that - it's not exactly normal, let's say. I'm a bit embarrassed for you I suppose.'

ReneeRol · 28/10/2020 12:22

They're two very nasty people.

TidyDancer · 28/10/2020 12:24

I would report that. I hate pranks anyway but I might've let the initial think go if they'd told you the truth within 10 minutes or so. What they've continued to do is bullying and humiliation. They deserved to be called out for it.

m0therofdragons · 28/10/2020 12:26

I hate pranks - is a word used to make bullying acceptable. Don’t be embarrassed, you come out of this a normal human being with feelings and they come across as immature nasty twats.

JuliaJohnston · 28/10/2020 12:26

Jesus, what a shower of simpletons Hmm. Report them to HR, the imbeciles.

NeonGenesis · 28/10/2020 12:29

You work with a bunch of dickheads. I'm sorry OP, it sounds unpleasant.

Sparklfairy · 28/10/2020 12:29

Oh OP Sad Flowers I'm so sorry. They're really nasty and without a doubt took it too far shouldn't have fucking done it in the first place

'Look, let's not talk about it, I'm a bit weirded out that you would do that - it's not exactly normal, let's say. I'm a bit embarrassed for you I suppose.' - this is such a good thing to say.

S111n20 · 28/10/2020 12:33

Oh no that’s not nice. Hope they are ashamed of themselves at how upset you was 💐

feistyoneyouare · 28/10/2020 12:35

@Dreading2020sSeasonFinale

I'd also perhaps tweet or DM what they did, tagging the celeb. You might end up with a real autograph and something nice to make you feel better?
I like this idea.

OP, I'm so sorry this has happened to you. These people sound vile!

faithfulbird20 · 28/10/2020 12:35

It was mean for them to do you're right. But don't dwell on it anymore. They had to fork out for a cake and go through all that effort just for a laugh. Id annoy them more by laughing it off and saying thanks the cake was delicious. It would piss them off even more. Idiots. Too much spare time on their hands I guess.

Cattermole · 28/10/2020 12:35

You know what OP?
If you were my friend IRL I'd be contacting that celeb to tell them what a mean trick those arseholes had played on you using their name, and see what they said about it. I mean, they'd be laughing on the other side of their faces if that person sent you free tickets to a show or something, wouldn't they?

"Prank" is a word that belongs in the Beano. You sound like a lovely person, and they sound like dicks.

Cattermole · 28/10/2020 12:37

Great minds are evidently thinking alike here.

keepgoingorstop · 28/10/2020 12:38

That's rotten, the nasty pair.

Try not to dwell on it though.

Italiangreyhound · 28/10/2020 12:38

Mean spirited co-workers. I think they are awful and I would be very open about saying on public media how your co-workers pranked you but took it too far.

Agree with Dreading2020sSeasonFinale

"I'd also perhaps tweet or DM what they did, tagging the celeb. You might end up with a real autograph and something nice to make you feel better?"

I'd also focus on making new friends and finding good things to make life better and easier for you.

Emmylou292 · 28/10/2020 12:39

They sound like twelve year olds! I struggle to comprehend how adults can behave like this and find it funny!

TheSeedsOfADream · 28/10/2020 12:40

@Dreading2020sSeasonFinale

I'd also perhaps tweet or DM what they did, tagging the celeb. You might end up with a real autograph and something nice to make you feel better?
This. Tell us their name, and we'll do it. What nasty fuckers you work with. Flowers
MillieVanilla · 28/10/2020 12:41

No sorry I would report to HR, that's not a prank that's blatant bullying and akin to something a teenage kid would pull on social media for "bants" cos they don't know any better.

OwlOne · 28/10/2020 12:42

@InescapableDeath

How have they been to you since? I think it was very cruel. You believed people you trusted, nothing wrong with that. It's not being gullible if it's plausible, which is why I HATE jokes like that. It's really not funny.

I'd be tearful just like you, but to them you need to pretend you're over it and just be cool with them until you can bear to be otherwise. Big hugs.

They are complete dickwads.

I know right, fooling somebody who trusts you with a plausible lie, wow, that must make them feel good Hmm
cabbagevan · 28/10/2020 12:42

That's not a way to behave at work, they are pathetic.

Redlocks28 · 28/10/2020 12:43

What a couple of dicks. Have they apologised? What are they being like with you now-any remorse?!

I’d be tempted to speak to the manager.

Rainbowbagel · 28/10/2020 12:43

Wow, such an overwhelming response. Thank you all so very much! I am so grateful x

Sadly things have been a bit tough/awkward since, I haven’t really spoken to them not ignored them but not actively made conversation either and so coincidentally they haven’t spoken to me which has resulted in some pretty lonely work days since.

In response to a poster above, they were aware of the posts and phone calls, they witnessed me face timing my Mum on my lunch..

I’m so relieved that the general consensus is that I’m not over reacting and I will take the advice of talking to them with what’s been suggested.

Thank you xx

OP posts:
NeonGenesis · 28/10/2020 12:44

Pranks are something that little children might do. If you "prank" an adult who you work with then you're asking for HR involvement. It's not a normal thing to do and I think most people would feel as you do, OP.

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