Bit of a long one.
My good friend has been married to her dh for 21 years,2 dc ages 15 and 16.
Hes been getting grumpier and nastier as the years have gone by and she's fallen out of love with him completely.
Her mil lives in an annex on their property and my friend solely sees to her needs including meds every few hours,catheter etc.Mil is in a wheelchair and in her 90s.
She wants to separate from her dh but he is refusing to move out under any circumstances.She can't get a job to have her own income as she needs to see to mil every few hours.Dh has bank account in his name,they don't have a joint one so she has to ask him for money.
How can she get out without abandoning her mil? They mortgaged up to eyeballs and he won't sell.